Just a Question What stops you from apologizing? Advertisements Share this:TwitterFacebookGoogleLike this:Like Loading... 62 thoughts on “Just a Question” Add yours Overthinking about the relationship that might be affected from conveying the truth, also negative perception about the result of speaking truth. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply yeah, losing the person the biggest fear of all 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yep. Rightly said LikeLiked by 1 person 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Sometimes ego,sometimes shyness,and sometime fear it all depends on a person.A egoistic person will never apologise,a shy person will hesistate and a fearful person will have fear I think so LikeLiked by 1 person Reply yeah I get it, but for shyness? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Basically there are only 2 reasons first ego hum q mafi maange I didn’t done anything wrong and second agar hum mafi maange to wo kya kahega/kahegi whatever.In second shyness and fear both exist simultaneously LikeLiked by 1 person yeah that’s true 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Ego or being shy? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply shy for? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply I mean when the person is some elder and you’re kinda shy when trying to apologize. LikeLiked by 1 person yeah that can be it 🙂 Only for elders 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Hmm ☺ LikeLiked by 1 person 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person During the end phase of my previous relationship I stopped apologising. So I believe that awareness of something coming to an end stopped me from apologising. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply that’s a total different perspective I must say 🙂 Yeah that can happen too LikeLiked by 1 person Reply My ego LikeLiked by 1 person Reply so as mine, it doesn’t go 😦 LikeLike Reply Sometimes even when you know that you are wrong but your ego stops you from apologizing… LikeLiked by 1 person Reply yeah resulting into disappointments LikeLike Reply knowing the fact that SORRY has no existence in the opposite party’s dictionary. Moreover we apologize to people whom we care about. LikeLiked by 2 people Reply I guess the case is opposite here, you apologize to people who are far away from you and neglect the closer ones, this is just my pov 🙂 What do you think? LikeLiked by 1 person Reply People close to you will understand that you are sorry the moment you realize your mistake.. but with people who already have maintained a distance only keep on increasing it by ignoring you and forgetting the instances when you want to forget and patch up which usually starts with a simple sorry even after knowing you are not at fault. LikeLiked by 1 person yeah that’s correct, sometimes we say sorry even if we are not aware of what wrong did we do.. LikeLiked by 1 person The fact that i am right…but sometimes you have to apologize even if you are right. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply is that thin line ever understood?? LikeLike Reply It is understood that is why it exists. Love is the one thing which makes us do stuff we dont want to do, but we do because of love. Not that we will lose love if we wont do some things, but we do it anyway.. LikeLiked by 1 person that’s right, love makes us do insane stuff sometimes 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person hmm…exactly…btw..you ask good questions.. LikeLiked by 1 person hehehe thanks and I am glad people reply here, it encourages me to ask more and learn how different perspectives can a single thing have 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person i think all perspectives have a common link or you may say all say the same thing differently.. I know it from the other comments.. LikeLiked by 1 person well they have, only priorities change LikeLiked by 1 person may be..) LikeLiked by 1 person yeah LikeLiked by 1 person I don’t have that issue. I always apologize if I am wrong..I am your shishya what do you except from me😃 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply haha even I do that but you know sometimes you just cannot maybe you wait for the other to come to you LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Ohhh..that happens in relationships..and in relationships always husbands have to apologize..I think god knows that that’s why he kept that sorry genes in me..ask your hubby LikeLiked by 1 person kuch bhi, ye sarasar galat hai my lord :p LikeLiked by 1 person I am not your lord..my lord LikeLiked by 1 person hahah LikeLiked by 1 person first reaction and answer to this post – fear! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply fear of letting our pride turn into ashes? LikeLike Reply fear of many things, such as admitting they were wrong, adding further fear of having always thought they were better than others, only to find out they are the same as anyone else, no better, no worse. Fear of growing, fear of having to find the strength to apologise. My motto for want of a better expression is, if you are or have been wrong, admit it, learn by it, take any lesson(s) learnt from having to apologise to the next stage of your life and move on. These are but a few examples. LikeLiked by 1 person yes fear can be the main component stagnating our growth in person and risking our relationship with the other one.. Your motto can work wonders if practiced by every person reading this 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Sometimes I’ve done something wrong that is much bigger than what they have discovered and I don’t want to unravel my errors. The battle of “do I admit to all I have done” vs. “apologize for what they only know”. Obviously, I tend to over think things and that is not a good trait to have. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply this happens with almost all of us, we wait for the other to speak and make us a little comfortable for admitting our sins LikeLike Reply It’s a combination of not wanting to admit that I am in the wrong and feeling awkward about approaching them or starting the conversation. Sometimes you can’t just throw out the “I’m sorry” verbiage until there are other things acknowledged or built on. LikeLiked by 1 person Reply that’s such an apt insight, yeah the guilt which follows makes it difficult LikeLike Reply doesn’t matter who is wrong..me or my partner, asking sorry doesn’t harm any one .. im the first to tell sorry.. problems solved 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply yayy senior, aap mere adarsh ho :p :p P.S. Even I do that 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply i know you junior 🙂 you are always amazing 🙂 you know how to value relationships LikeLiked by 1 person Do I? 🙂🙂🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person 100% im confident about you 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person thanks Senior 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Pride! LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Damn Pride 😦 LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Ego is one thing which stops us LikeLiked by 1 person Reply Yeah that is the first obvious thing LikeLiked by 1 person Reply And all other reasons come only because of the Ego…. Because if I don’t think I am someone more important I will easily apologize. LikeLiked by 1 person that’s true pawan 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person 🙏😊🌹 LikeLiked by 1 person 🙂 LikeLiked by 1 person Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here... Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email (required) (Address never made public) Name (required) Website You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. 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