People rise even after failures kalyan, a trait of a hero.. this question was just to let everybody know, it’s okay to fail but what you do after is what matters 🙂
Sorry…my hands will pain if I write my failures…soo I am taking failure as part and parcel of life…if you don’t get failures what will you learn?? And some failures are destined..we can’t change them…
I was failed terribly in my one and only suicide attempt :o.. but that failure made my life worthy. If i was successful there, i won’t be here to tell my failures lol … i know its not the topic to discuss on public platform and also its not in the context to the question 😛 but as i read the question, i wrote the first thing came in my mind.. ^_^
My first major failure was a failed marriage. I knew nothing about relationships when I married the first time, married the wrong person, and failed throughout. The wrong decision led to a domino effect. I can say I was blessed with 3 great children despite the failed marriage.
The road to recuperation was a slow one. Honestly, I’m still on the road to some degree. My kids are 4 hours away, and my career was affected thus affecting my financial status. The circumstances were those of betrayal, so I now put a great deal of energy empathizing and walking with those who have experienced similar things. Another failure was getting all my education in ministry and almost solely working in churches. Many churches stigmatize divorce, especially when it is a divorced pastor. Most companies do not want to hire someone who primarily has church experience. Not like we provide leadership, manage teams and the conflict that goes with them, counsel, and do other things that managers and supervisors do lol. Long story short – it is impossible to recuperate from some failures because failures have consequences. The big question is, “Do we allow failure to paralyze us, or do we recognize where we failed, brush off the dust and learn the lessons?”
You have given us a lesson for life, you stand tall and no matter what move ahead, thanks a lot for being such a sport 🙂
Yes, the last line is what I agree for, fall, crumble, lie down there for some time, experience the dust there, laugh on what you did, get up, wake up, shout and there you go…
1st time??? Failed a lot of times first time I realised when I couldn’t get a good college…….
I still feel bad about it, when I see my friends having fun in their life, and I am in a fuckall college, with almost no future…….
Biggest failure so far
No worries, I am so glad that you stood firm and found a way past your failures, this question was just to ask how did they manage after the failure, you are an example shaggy, thanks a ton for your insight and sorry if I brought back those memories
In living a truthful life…
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🙂 🙂
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I failed in my SSB interview. Still no regrets
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What did you learn out of it
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You know 😊 I couldn’t get through the junior kg interview …the first interview every child has to face before joining school
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how did that impact your life?
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Too much ….I got selected for the next best school …St Patricks high School and Junior College
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wow 🙂
you are an inspiration Kiran 🙂
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Thank you dear 😊
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😘😘
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😙😙😙..good night dear
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I have failed in love.
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how did you find yourself after?
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I didn’t find yet!
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All the best for the introspection ✌🏻✌🏻
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The moment I chose engineering, I have continously failed in 1 or 2 subjects in every semester although I pass them in 2nd attempt 😂
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Even I failed in maths-1 😁
Left tuitions and started studying on my own and I stood 3rd in class ☺️☺️☺️
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Aha.. Nice. 😁
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feels good right 🙂
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Didn’t get you
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People rise even after failures kalyan, a trait of a hero.. this question was just to let everybody know, it’s okay to fail but what you do after is what matters 🙂
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Sorry…my hands will pain if I write my failures…soo I am taking failure as part and parcel of life…if you don’t get failures what will you learn?? And some failures are destined..we can’t change them…
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that’s why I asked this question 🙂
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Means??? What exactly is your point
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read my question and then your answer, you’ll get it
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I was failed terribly in my one and only suicide attempt :o.. but that failure made my life worthy. If i was successful there, i won’t be here to tell my failures lol … i know its not the topic to discuss on public platform and also its not in the context to the question 😛 but as i read the question, i wrote the first thing came in my mind.. ^_^
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You kidding, right?
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Okay so this is my new failure to make you believe in my story 😂😂😂
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come on bunny, tell me
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Arre don’t be serious as you know bunny is always funny 😉.. i know it was a bad joke but i know u r kind enuf to ignore my stupidity 😂
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It’s not funny dude 😒
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I m sorry 😞..
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It’s alright 🙂🙂🙂
Long time bunny, how’s you
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I am good.. aap kaisi ho 😊
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mast mast 🙂
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😊😊
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I was failed in ielts exam and my friend pass without preparation . That time i feel😑🤐😏
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So what did you do after you failed? I mean how did you manage to get back to life?
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Again and again . And now i do hard work
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okay thanks a ton for your participation 🙂
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My first major failure was a failed marriage. I knew nothing about relationships when I married the first time, married the wrong person, and failed throughout. The wrong decision led to a domino effect. I can say I was blessed with 3 great children despite the failed marriage.
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Thanks for your active participation, it needs so much courage to admit your failure.. I just wanted to know how did you recuperate your failure?
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The road to recuperation was a slow one. Honestly, I’m still on the road to some degree. My kids are 4 hours away, and my career was affected thus affecting my financial status. The circumstances were those of betrayal, so I now put a great deal of energy empathizing and walking with those who have experienced similar things. Another failure was getting all my education in ministry and almost solely working in churches. Many churches stigmatize divorce, especially when it is a divorced pastor. Most companies do not want to hire someone who primarily has church experience. Not like we provide leadership, manage teams and the conflict that goes with them, counsel, and do other things that managers and supervisors do lol. Long story short – it is impossible to recuperate from some failures because failures have consequences. The big question is, “Do we allow failure to paralyze us, or do we recognize where we failed, brush off the dust and learn the lessons?”
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You have given us a lesson for life, you stand tall and no matter what move ahead, thanks a lot for being such a sport 🙂
Yes, the last line is what I agree for, fall, crumble, lie down there for some time, experience the dust there, laugh on what you did, get up, wake up, shout and there you go…
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1st time??? Failed a lot of times first time I realised when I couldn’t get a good college…….
I still feel bad about it, when I see my friends having fun in their life, and I am in a fuckall college, with almost no future…….
Biggest failure so far
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Morning Shaggy, sorry to hear that but how are you coping up with it?
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That’s pretty embarrassing, could you please delete the previous comment, I wouldn’t feel really comfortable with people reading it.
Please.
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No worries, I am so glad that you stood firm and found a way past your failures, this question was just to ask how did they manage after the failure, you are an example shaggy, thanks a ton for your insight and sorry if I brought back those memories
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